To repair a 1 inch tear in my new 5/4 Bueller wetsuit, I got advice and supplies from Rowands Reef Scuba Shop (W 4th Ave and Burrard).
Step 1: Iron (low heat) on a patch of Tenacious Tape Neoprene over the inside of the tear
Step 2: Apply a mixture of Aquaseal FD (3 parts) with accelerator (1 part) over the outside of the tear ... allow 2 hrs to cure
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